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Certain subjects can touch a nerve, and the awkwardness and pain that might follow aren't worth the momentary bliss of an orgasm. Cuddling can send the wrong message, says Needle, or cause one or both of you to feel an emotional attachment again.
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“If you don’t find yourself thinking about your ex anymore, and thinking of your ex with another person doesn’t bother you, then this could be an indication that hooking up could be okay,” Rachel Needle, Psy D, a psychologist in West Palm Beach, Florida and co-director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes, tells Health.
As long as your feelings for your ex are water under the relationship bridge, and thinking about being together in bed doesn’t launch uncontrollable sobbing, and you really understand and accept why you broke up in the first place, then it's fine—even sexually exciting—to revisit your old stomping grounds.
(It happens, sure, but the odds are against you.) RELATED: 6 Couples-Only Subscription Boxes That Will Make You Want to Stay in for Date Night But if you're sure you don't have an ulterior motive, is it okay to booty call your ex for a casual hookup?
We called in relationship experts—and as it turns out, you If enough time has gone by since you two split, and you don't think those old feelings for your ex will reignite, then you can probably green-light a booty call.
Here's How to Tell “Leaving the door open, even for sex, can prevent someone from moving on or reflecting on what went wrong," sex therapist and assistant professor of psychiatry at UCLA School of Medicine Kimberly Resnick Anderson tells .