Dating and swinging

Posted by / 15-Dec-2019 10:34

To answer this question I referred back to the hundreds on interviews I’ve conducted over the last 15 years with couples in the Swinging Lifestyle, as well as private interviews with the women involved.I put together a collage of some of the more relevant commentary from those interviews.Considering that the great majority of women look at swinging as an opportunity for sexual variety, being seduced is part and parcel of the overall experience.Ironically what started, as a nerve-wracking challenge for many women becomes an emboldening opportunity to explore aspects of themselves that society has otherwise tried to control.The man, most often, abides by the decisions of his female companion.For the most part women are in control, according to data.

At times the preference for woman-to-woman play excludes not only men but also those women who have no bi interests.The following are some of the rules: Generally, rules are modified after the couple's comfort and trust levels increase.One of the most surprising, and apparently, benefits of swinging for women is trust.However, as the comfort level of the couple increases, the rules seem to decrease as well.Over time rules become no longer relevant or even obsolete.

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