Handle intimidating men for a dating mumof3 relationship
A person who is content and has peace of mind is very unlikely to project anger and bitterness on a regular basis.
We’ve all been in the company of someone who makes us feel on edge, uneasy or unsure of ourselves.
There is a very clever way to deal with this situation.
Every single one of us was a child once, fairly powerless and open to the rules, restrictions and attitudes of the ‘powerful’ adults around us.
In order to appeal the child in another adult, it is important to act like an adult dealing with a difficult child. When you approach them with curiosity it takes them by surprise and they often begin to unravel when they are asked to explain themselves in more detail.
Stick to the facts and take the dignified path always. Never be confrontational or belittling with intimidating people. Ironically, many intimidating people have learned this behaviour due to feeling powerless and unheard as children.
The more emotional intelligence one has the easier it is to deal with intimidation from others.
As a general rule, I have often found that the people I encounter who are aggressive, judgemental, miserable, rude or just plain horrid usually have a reason for being the way they are.
Perhaps you are dealing with a domineering boss or have a classmate who can be a bit of a bully.We can all be regressed to feeling like that little kid again depending on how someone behaves with us. Intimidating people are often all bravado and have very little to back it up with.Have you ever been around your parents or an adult that knew you as a child and suddenly realised that you have changed your behaviour? Acting sheepish and childlike amongst adults from our childhood is quite common. They are used to others being intimidated and accepting their behaviour.Remember – you can choose what to think about any situation.You can choose to believe that someone is scary, or better than you or unmanageable and feel the accompanying negative emotions (working for you??
She went on to explain that these negative behaviours were projections of inner misery and chaos.